Shenseea Avuga ku Rukundo n’Ingaruka z’Isenyuka ry’Ingo
Umuhanzikazi w’icyamamare ukomoka muri Jamaica, Shenseea, yagaragaje imitekerereze ye ku rukundo, isenyuka ry’ingo ndetse n’ingaruka za gatanya ku buzima bw’abantu, cyane cyane abana.
Mu kiganiro aherutse kugirana n’itangazamakuru ryo muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika, Shenseea yagaragaje ko atemera gatanya nk’umuti w’ibibazo byo mu muryango. Yagize ati:
“Ntabwo nemera ko gatanya ari igisubizo cyiza kuri buri gihe. Abantu benshi bayifata nk’igisubizo cyihuse, ariko ntibatekereze ku ngaruka zayo, cyane cyane ku bana.”
Shenseea, uzwi mu ndirimbo nka “Blessed” na “Lick”, yakomeje avuga ko indangagaciro z’urukundo, ukwihangana n’itumanaho mu muryango aribyo by’ingenzi mu gukumira ibibazo bishobora gutuma ingo zisenyuka.
Yatanze urugero ku mibereho ye bwite
Uyu muhanzikazi w’imyaka 28, ufite umwana umwe w’umuhungu, yavuze ko kuba umubyeyi w’umwana w’ingimbi byamuhaye ishusho y’ukuntu isenyuka ry’urugo rishobora kugira ingaruka ku muryango:
“Nabaye mu buzima butari bworoshye, kandi kubona uburyo abana bababara iyo ababyeyi babo batandukanye, ni ikintu kibabaje cyane.”
Ubutumwa bwe bwagize icyo buhindura ku mbuga nkoranyambaga
Nyuma y’iki kiganiro, abafana ba Shenseea ndetse n’abantu batandukanye ku mbuga nkoranyambaga bagaragarije ko bishimiye uburyo yahagurukiye kuvuga ku kibazo abantu benshi banga gukoraho.
Umwe mu bafana be kuri X (Twitter) yagize ati:
“Ibi ni byo dukeneye: ibyamamare bivuga ku ngingo zikomeye, aho kuvuga gusa ku myambaro n’imyidagaduro.”
Icyo Abahanga Bavuga ku Iyi Ngirakamaro
Abajyanama mu mibanire (relationship counselors) nabo bemeza ko ibyo Shenseea yavuze bifite ishingiro. Gatanya, nubwo hari igihe iba ngombwa, igira ingaruka zifatika ku bana, cyane cyane mu bijyanye n’imyitwarire, ukwiyizera ndetse n’imikurire yabo.
